How To Relax And Enjoy Your Wedding Day
Your wedding day is supposed to be the best day of your life. Yet, many brides, more so than grooms will suffer great anxiety until they finally go to bed that night; that is, if they can sleep. Here are some things to consider so that you can enjoy your wedding day.
1. Theres no such thing as a perfect wedding day. Theres always going to be something thats not going to go right; thats just the nature of life. If you remember that, then youll be able to roll with whatever comes up.
2. Have a sense of humor about the day. One wedding I went to had the reverend have the couple getting married facing the wrong way. At another one, a young child kept answering every question the priest was asking the couple being married. There are things you just cant control, and anything you cant control, dont worry about it,
3. Make sure youve put together your wedding party properly. Its not only the best man and maid of honor you need to think about, but the other members of the wedding party and how best they match up with each other. Dont force two people who dont like each other to be with each other throughout the wedding day. Dont pick a child who might be too young to understand their role in the wedding ceremony because they might not be able to fulfill their duties. Use good judgment up front and you wont have to worry about any of these things on your wedding day.
4. Make sure there will be good air circulation in the room where youre getting married. Ive seen many brides, and every once in awhile other members of the bridal party, pass out and collapse under the heat and stress of the day. If its going to be a hot day make sure there are fans available for the wedding couple and wedding party.
5. Dont add too many things to the ceremony that involve participation from you that you may not be ready for. This includes singing a song during the ceremony or reading your vows in public. If its something youre not ready for, or you get nervous in front of crowds, dont do it.
6. Speaking of being nervous in front of crowds, remember that all eyes are going to be on your during the ceremony. Its your special day. Youre going to look great, be dressed great, and no matter how long or short the ceremony is, hopefully youll make it to the end when the person marrying you says you are now man and wife; you may kiss the bride. Thats what the day is all about.